Sleep · For both of you · Our storyNight shifts that actually worked for us
Splitting the night so each of us got one long stretch.
From our family · For babies 0 to 4 months · Oct 22, 2026
The split
One of us took 9pm to 2am, the other 2am to 7am. Earplugs and the spare room for whoever was off.
The handoff
A two-line note in the app: last feed, last diaper, anything odd. Nobody had to wake the other to ask.
What the experts say: Safe sleep (healthychildren.org)
This is what our family did, not advice. Anything medical links to trusted health sites. Nothing here replaces your provider.

